Axis counselling and psychotherapy service

For adult survivors of childhood sexual. physical or emotional abuse

    The Problem?

    Abused children teach themselves methods of survival by protecting themselves emotionally and physically.

    Their responses may include any of these:-

    • Denial - pretend it's not happening , pretence that it's not happening to them, block out the memory
    • Seek Approval - trying to be perfect, pleasing adults.
    • Withdrawn - feel it's not safe to express themselves.
    • Turn off feelings - do not allow themselves to feel, protecting themselves from pain.
    • Misbehave - to express anger and frustration or to get attention - even if it hurts.

    These patterns can be carried into adult life in a number of ways:-

    • A lack of trust
    • Fear of making changes
    • Caring "too much"
    • Difficulty in showing emotions or recognising emotions
    • Unable to cope with stress
    • Low self esteem
    • Sexual difficulties

    These may result in:-

    • Relationship problems
    • Depression
    • Self-destructive behavior
    • Isolation
    • Lack of direction
    • Problems of raising children
    • Drugs and alcohol abuse
    • Eating distress
    • Flashbacks

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